Scandinavia tuaj yeem yog ib qhov chaw zoo rau kev mus ncig ua lag luam, tsis hais txog lub teb chaws koj mus rau. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias qhov txawv txav muaj nyob! Cov neeg ncig tebchaws taug kev mus rau ib lub teb chaws xws li Sweden yuav tsum xyuas kom lawv tsis raug ntes tshem tawm ntawm qee tus qauv kev txawv txav thiab kev lis kev cai uas lawv tau ntsib.
Yuav kom nkag siab zoo dua txhua tus nuances thiab kev coj noj coj qhia uas yuav pab tau ib tug neeg ua lag luam mus rau Sweden, kuv xam Gayle paj rwb, tus kws sau phau ntawv Hais Qhia Txhua Yam rau Txhua Tus Neeg, Txhua Qhov Chaw: 5 Keys Tawm Tsam Hla Kab Nkawm.
Ms. Cotton yog ib tug kws tshaj lij rau kev txawv txav thiab tus neeg hais lus zoo thiab paub txog kev cai sib txuas lus. Nws kuj yog Thawj Tswj Hwm ntawm Lub Vev-xaij Excellence Inc., thiab tau ua yeeb yaj kiab hauv ntau lub TV, xws li: NBC News, BBC News, PBS, Zoo Sawv ntxov Amelikas, PM Magazine, PM Northwest, thiab Pacific Report. Yog xav paub ntxiv txog Ms. Cotton, thov mus xyuas www.GayleCotton.com. Ms. Cotton tau zoo siab qhia cov tswv yim nrog What.com nyeem los pab cov neeg taug kev mus ncig xyuas cov teeb meem kev coj noj coj ua thaum mus txawv tebchaws.
Cov tswv yim zoo li cas koj muaj rau cov neeg taug kev mus ua haujlwm rau Sweden?
- Thaum ua lag luam hauv Sweden, nco ntsoov hais tias nws yog kev kab lis kev cai tib neeg, qhov chaw ntawm lub neej zoo thiab ib puag ncig cov teeb meem yog qhov tseem ceeb heev.
- Lawv tuav tes thaum mus txog thiab khiav tawm. Nws tau ua kom sai thiab nquag, thiab luag los yog lwm yam kev sib txuas lus uas tsis sib txuas lus feem ntau tsis nrog nws - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tsis tau ntsib yav dhau los.
- Lub hom phiaj ntawm kev lag luam hauv Swedish yog kev tsim cai tshaj li kev cai, yog li tsis muaj qej zom, slouching, los yog leaning tiv thaiv yam.
- Ua kom koj tus cwj pwm txawv tsawg kawg nkaus, ua kom txias, txias, thiab muaj qhov tseeb raws li kev xav tau zoo dua. Swedes tseem dog dig nyob ntsiag to, yog li hais lus hauv ib subdued, modulated tone ntawm lub suab.
- Swedes yog ib tug txaus siab cov neeg, tab sis lawv yeej tsis brag. Thaum lawv hwm ib tus neeg uas muaj kev paub txog thiab kev paub, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob khav theeb. Tsuas yog qhia rau lawv los ntawm kev npaj zoo, nthuav dav oriented, thiab cov koom haum uas yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tau txais cov Swedes txais lwm lub tswv yim sab nraud.
- Cov lus tseeb thiab cov nuj nqis tseem ceeb, thiab yuav tsum qhia meej meej thiab meej. Swedes hais txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm ib qho kev nthuav qhia, tsis yog nws cov yeeb yuj los yog qhov muag pom.
- Cov kev qhia ntawv Swedish qhia lawv kom lawv xav txog cov tswv yim thiab kev tshuaj xyuas, yog li lawv feem ntau saib cov kev cai los yog cov kev cai thoob ntiaj teb los daws cov teeb meem.
- Thawj lub rooj sib tham ua lag luam yuav yog qhov tseem ceeb, nrog cov Swedes ntsuas koj, koj lub lag luam, thiab koj lub tswv yim. Pom zoo kom tag nrho cov rooj sib tham zoo ua ntej, thiab yeej tsis hloov kiag lub sijhawm thiab qhov chaw.
- Swedes ntseeg nyob rau hauv sai sai, yog li nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau tuaj txog rau lub sij hawm los yog nws yuav raug muab raws li ib tug kos npe ntawm kev saib tsis taus los yog tsis muaj kev txaus siab. Lawv kuj ua raws li lub sijhawm pib thiab xaus rau ntawm lub rooj sib tham.
- Swedes yog fashionably zoo-hnav ris tsho, thiab rau kev lag luam ib tug ntau dua conservative hnav yog tsim nyog rau cov txiv neej hnav suits thiab ties, thiab cov poj niam hnav suits los yog dresses. Cov xim muaj xim yog ib qho kev xaiv zoo dua xim xim.
- Kev ua siab zoo thiab kev loj hlob, tsis yog kev phoojywg, yog cov nyiam ua lag luam. Kev lav phij xaub rau pej xeem feem ntau tsis ua tiav, tshwj tsis yog nws siv rau tag nrho pawg neeg. Nws tsis muaj ib qho kev sib tw ntawm kev sib tw lossis xav sawv tawm.
- Swedes feem ntau tau txoj cai mus ua lag luam nrog tsawg los yog tsis muaj me me tham. Hauv kev sib tham, nws tseem ceeb heev kom muaj lub qhov muag sib cuag ntau li ntau tau.
- Swedes yog heev xis nrog ntev pauses thiab silence nyob rau hauv kev sib tham, yog li nws yuav ua yuam kev mus hurriedly sau rau hauv pauses.
- Lub Swedish kev nkag siab ntawm kev lom zem yog tshwj xeeb, thiab tej zaum kuj tsis to taub los ntawm txhua tus neeg. Nws tsis yog qhov kev lom zem rau kev siv lub rooj sib tham lossis kev sib khom lus.
- Swedes yuav tsis txhob sib cav tshaj rhiab lub ntsiab lus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nrog neeg tuaj xyuas. Yog tias muaj kev sib tham ntawm hom pib no, tus Swede kuj yuav txwv tsis pub nws.
5 Tej Yam Tseem Ceeb Ntawm Cov Lus Sib Tham lossis Kev Yaum Cim
- Qhov muag hu yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau ua kom koj lub siab dawb paug thiab kev mloog lus.
- Nws yog ib qho zoo los qhia txog kev paub txog Swedish yam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov uas paub cov Swedes ntawm Scandinavian mus kuaj ntawm Finland, Norway, thiab Denmark.
- Lub Swedes hlub qhov thiab sab nraum zoov, yog li tham txog txhua yam hais txog Sweden lub ntuj kev zoo nkauj los yog kev ua si - zoo li hockey thiab ncaws pob.
- Cov neeg Swedes nyiam sib tham txog lub tswv yim, kev kos duab, kev mus txawv tebchaws, kev ua neej tam sim no, thiab tseem muaj kev lag luam yog tias nws tsis tseem ceeb ntawm Sweden tus qauv kev sib raug zoo.
- Muaj ib qho kev zoo ntawm kev tsim txiaj nyob rau hauv cheeb tsam hauv cheeb tsam ntawm Sweden, yog li nws yog siab thaum koj paub ib yam dab tsi txog thaj chaw tshwj xeeb koj nyob nraum mus xyuas.
5 Tej Yam Tseem Ceeb Ntawm Cov Lus Sib Tham lossis Yawg Piav Qhia
- Nug cov lus nug koj tus kheej, lossis tham txog tsev neeg tshwj tsis yog tias lawv coj nws los ntawm qhov chaw ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo.
- Tsis txhob rov qab ua dog dig, thiab zam tsis tau tus neeg koj tau ntsib.
- Tsis txhob muaj teebmeem lossis muaj kev sib fim txog qib, txoj cai, kev vam meej, lossis nyiaj tau los. Lub Swedes yog heev understated txog qhov no.
- Tsis txhob siv ntau tus superlatives thaum hais lus, vim hais tias Swedes yog opposed rau stretching qhov tseeb nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev.
- Cov neeg Swedes tsis nyiam cov neeg tsis txaus siab, yog li txawm tias thaum tej yam zoo li qeeb los yog ua raws li kev tsav tsheb, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob pom cov cim ntawm kev tsis taus.
Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb kom paub txog qhov kev txiav txim siab lossis kev sib sab laj?
- Kev txiav txim siab yuav ua tau rau qis nruab nrab lossis qis dua ntawm lub hierarchy hauv Sweden, thiab muaj kev pom zoo rau kev sib koom tes thiab kev sib haum xeeb.
- Kev pom zoo muaj nuj nqis, thiab Swedes yuav ua kom tsis txhob muaj kev tawm tsam vim lawv yeej tsis xav ua rau ib tus neeg ua txhaum.
- Kev sib tham nyob rau hauv Sweden yuav siv sij hawm, tab sis ib zaug ib tug deal tau finalized thiab kos npe, koj yuav tau so assured hais tias lub Swedes yuav uphold lawv kawg ntawm lub luag hauj lwm
Cov tswv yim rau cov poj niam?
Cov poj niam thiab cov txiv neej raug kho raws li qhov sib npaug nyob hauv Sweden, cia siab tias cov neeg txiav txim siab yuav tsum yog poj niam los txiv neej.
Cov lus qhia txog kev piav tes piav taw?
- Swedes nyiam sawv ntsug ntawm sib txawv me ntsis ntxiv hauv lawv cov kev sib tshuam dua ib txhia kab lis kev cai, thiab tsis txhob siv cov ntawv tsis sib txuas lus, tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj rau koj lub cev lus thiab tes tes taw ua yam tsawg,
- Nrog rau kev zam ntawm kev sib tuav tes, Swedes tsis muaj ntau ntau ntawm lub cev nqaij daim tawv, yog li tsis txhob rov qab los, khawm, los yog kov ub kov no.