Hanukkah Etiquette rau cov tsis-cov neeg Yudas: Yuav ua li cas Muab Yuda cov phooj ywg rau Hanukkah

8 Lub Tswv Yim rau Kev Tawm Tsam Hakhukkah

Dab tsi tsim nyog - thiab tsis tsim nyog - muab ib tug phooj ywg Yuda lossis ib tug neeg koom tes rau Hanukkah?

Yog hais tias koj mob siab rau ib tug txiv leej tub Yuda thiab xav muab nws niam rau ib yam dab tsi rau cov hnub caiv - thiab koj tsis xav kom tshuab nws - cov txheej txheem uas tsis muaj tseeb yog dab tsi? Yog tias koj tsev neeg ua koobtsheej Christmas, thiab koj tus menyuam tus phoojywg zoo tshaj yog Yudai, koj yuav tsum tau ua licas thiab thaum twg yog lub sijhawm zoo rau muab lub txiaj ntsim Hanukkah?

Los yog xav tias koj ua hauj lwm nrog ib tug neeg uas yog neeg Yudai, thiab koj xav kom lawv tau txais lub caij Christmas: koj puas tau?

Zoo Tshaj Cov Ntaub Ntawv Cia Txog Hanyukkah: Nws Tsis yog cov neeg Yudais Christmas

Ua ntej tshaj, ib qho tseem ceeb factoid: Hanukkah tsis yog tiag tiag "Yudais Christmas".

Nws yog ib qho kev ywj pheej yaus hnub nyoog, ib qho tseemceeb hauv cov neeg Yudas qhov kev cai dab qhuas dua Christmas yog rau cov ntseeg.

Hais tias, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv Tebchaws Asmeskas, Hanukkah tau siv qhov khoom pub dawb. Vim li cas? Vim tias nws nyuam qhuav tshwm sim rau lub Kaum Ob Hlis Ntuj, thaum lub sij hawm Christmas khw lub caij nyoog.

8 Dos & Tsis txhob 't ntawm Hukukkah Khoom Plig Muab

Nyob rau hauv kev txaus siab ntawm hnub caiv cheer, ntawm no yog yim tswv yim "Dos thiab Don'ts" rau Hanukkah khoom plig-muab - yim lub tswv yim nyob rau hauv kev hawm ntawm yim hmo ntawm Hanukkah.

  1. Txhob pub Ham rau Hanukkah. Tsis yog txhua tus neeg uas Yudais saib xyuas txog kev noj mov kosher. Feem ntau cov neeg Yudais New York ua tsis tau. Feem ntau, tsis txhob noj cov khoom noj khoom haus uas muaj cov khoom noj zoo li Canadian nqaij npuas kib, zoo nkauj qaug cw, Serrano nqaij npua, Italian hnyuv ntxwm, ib lub thawv ntawm lub ncuav qab zib zoo nkauj zoo li Santa, los yog Christmas fruitcake. Ntawm qhov tod tes, yog tias koj tus phooj ywg Yudais yog ib qho zaub mov los yog muaj ib qho yen rau cov zaub mov uas tsis yog kos kos, sim ua daim ntawv pov thawj rau tus neeg nyiam, qhov chaw noj mov nyob hauv Brooklyn hauv Brooklyn hu ua Traif thiab, ib yam nkaus li ironically, nyob ze ntawm Hasidic hauv zej zos hauv Williamsburg. Los yog koj tuaj yeem coj lawv mus rau lub xyoo Latke Success txhua xyoo, yog li lawv muaj peev xwm saj tau ntau yam kev txawj ntse ntawm tus kws tshaj lij.
  1. Tsis Muab : Tsis txhob muab cov phau ntawv, khaub ncaws, khoom ua si, hluav taws xob, khoom siv, khij nyiab, nyiaj hniav kub, taug kev mus rau Paris los yog lub hli, nyiaj ntsuab, khoom plig rau lub sij hawm xws li dawb zov me nyuam, los yog pub dawb rau kev siab hlub. Raws li txiaj ntsim ntawm khoom noj, saib saum toj no.
  2. Tsis Txhob Xim Lub Qhov Muag: Hloov cov PJs nrog Red-and-Green Reindeer Motif. Christmas xim yog xim liab thiab ntsuab. Hanukkah xim yog xiav thiab dawb.
  1. Muab Koj Txiaj Ntsig Thaum Lub Caij Nyoog . Yog hais tias nws yog ib qho khoom plig Hanukkah, ces sim muab nws rau lub caij nyoog zam, lub ntsiab lus thaum Hanukkah. Qhov ntawd yuav tsum tsis txhob nyuaj - qhov no hnub caiv sau rau yim hnub! Thaum twg yog hmo kawg ntawm Hanukkah xyoo no?
  2. Tsis txhob muab lub Christmas Creche rau Hanukkah. Nyob rau tib lub leeg raws li # 3 saum toj no, tsis txhob muab ib qho khoom plig Hanukkah emblazoned nrog Santas, khoom qab zib canes, caij ntuj no snowflakes, los yog Christmas ntoo. Tshwj tsis yog tias tus neeg tau txais txiaj ntsim ntawm koj lub txiaj ntsim nyiam kitsch, tsis txhob muab tus npeeg Christmas-crafted Christmas, txawm tias koj twb paub nws txoj kev mus rau Brooklyn los ntawm kev sib tw ua lag luam hauv Venice.
  3. Ua Siab Dhau ntawm Cov Cai Hla Tebchaws Hanukkah, Yog Koj Tsis Paub . Nws yog ib qhov kev nyab xeeb tshaj plaws los muab ib yam dab tsi tsoos.

    Rau cov me nyuam, qhov sib npaug ntawm Christmas khoom plig yog khoom noj (ib qho khoom ua si tshwj xeeb nrog cov tsiaj ntawv loj nyob rau txhua sab), los sis cov hnab yas chocolate qhwv hauv ntawv kub kom zoo li npib.

    Rau cov neeg laus, xav txog cov khaub ncaws zoo nkauj tsho, nplua nuj roj, lossis ib phau ntawv ua noj Yudais. Hais tias, koj tus phoojywg lossis tus neeg nrog ua haujlwm tuaj yeem xav noj zaub mov, xws li chav ua mov noj hauv Brooklyn Chav ua noj rau lub rooj noj mov Hla Dhau los khaws cov plua plav hauv ib chav Carroll Gardens.

  4. Tsis txhob qhwv ib qho khoom plig hauv Hulukkah thaum Christmas . Txhob muab cov khoom phij cuam rau Christmas sau rau Christmas sau ntawv; cov phau ntawv yuav yog hom kab uas muaj xwm txheej tab sis lawv tseem raug txiav txim los ntawm lawv cov npog.

    Yog tias koj yuav tau cov ntawv ntim ntawv, xaiv ib qho dav dav los yog faib rau cov ntawv tshwj xeeb hauv Hukukkah (txawm tias nws yuav muaj overpriced thiab thaum koj tuaj yeem yuav muaj qis dua qhov koj xav tau.) Los sis, mus ntsuab, thiab kos duab dua qub seem ntawm The New York Times los yog daim ntawv xim av daj los ntawm koj cov khoom kawg ntawm cov tsho ntawm koj cov khaub ncaws qhuav.

    Ditto daim gift card: yuav, siv los yog ua ib daim npav Hanukkah, los yog siv daim npav ntiaj teb no zoo sib xws los ntawm ib qho kev pab xws li UNICEF, tiam sis rau qhov kev sib luag, tsis txhob muab Christmas card rau ntawm koj cov khoom plig hauv Hukukkah. Los yog, ua kom muaj kev sib koom tes ntawm Christmas-Hanukkah khoom plig rau cov tsev neeg sib koom tes nrog kev ntseeg.

  1. Tsis txhob tso npe koj tus phooj ywg rau JDate.com rau Hanukkah . Thaum kawg, yog koj tus phooj ywg Yuda yog tib leeg, tsis txhob sau npe rau nws los ntawm JDate, txawm hais tias nws cov suab paj nruag ua lag luam li "txoj kev niaj hnub rau cov neeg Yudais nrhiav kev hlub." Vim li cas? Vim tias lub txiaj ntsim no yog tshwj tseg rau cov poj niam Yuda.

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